We live in an era in which relationships are increasingly complicated, where love ends overnight as if it were a toy that has run out of charge..
No one in a relationship should have any doubts about what their partner does or does not feel.. Love is energy, When they love you it shows and feels, you don't have to look for magic formulas for it. But sometimes we do not know clearly if things are working or not and it is normal, relationships have cycles, stages where loving is not always the same. We are evolving.
The most important thing is to feel that reciprocity is present, that you do not feel that only you are pulling the relationship, at some point only you are going to fight within the relationship and it can be valid, as long as the other person joins later to keep walking together.
Because this is to move in the same direction as if we were a team and sometimes the other person is not going to be 100% available, but in the end they will know how to get back on track..
Not all the people who enter our lives will reach the end with us, so it is important to recognize when to leave and not demand that the other love us when they no longer feel it. Relationships have every right to end, the "together forever" sometimes is not a matter of time, if not quality in the present.
You feel that something has changed in your relationship and like the other person he is not able to tell you if he really wants to continue by your side, You see yourself looking madly for ideas, tips or keys to check it.
Here we give you several keys so that you know if you are with the right person, with a person who loves you and values you.
1. Facts are worth more than words
When that person came into your life, little by little he won over you with the little details, calls, outings, signs of affection and leaving you visible that he wanted to show you that he was choosing you to be his travel partner in love..
It does not matter how many times your partner tells you that he loves you, if the facts are not related to the words, it is useless.
2. They go together in the same direction in the relationship
A relationship is a team, sometimes the other person is not available to give everything because they have their personal reasons. This does not mean that I do not love you, but it is good to know if both of you are clear about where you are moving as long as you are together..
3. You are part of their priorities
They spend time together, they look for a way so that the relationship does not fall into monotony. They know how to give each other spaces and not be overwhelmed when they are together.
That person shows you day by day that he is choosing you and that you are part of his priorities. When you are part of someone's priorities you do not have to demand anything, things arise mutually.
4. He doesn't just love you for sex
There are relationships where the emotional is not present, where only sex is the protagonist and you do not feel that you are valued in the relationship. Where sentimentally they don't count on you and you notice it.
Relationships are about undressing not only sexually speaking, so be very clear about what is most important when talking about intimacy.
5. Your self-esteem is still present
Where they love you, they do not annul you, much less do you have to negotiate your dignity so that someone stays. They may have differences, but that doesn't make the other person hurt or disrespect you..
Whoever loves you respects you, do not doubt it. Where they love you, they help you to highlight your virtues to discover your hidden capacities. Relationships are there to bring quality to our already complete life.
6. Communication is present
There are many things that can be negotiated in a relationship, but communication is the vital tool that binds us to someone other than ourselves..
Where they love you, they keep you in mind, both for everyday things and for personal things. If your partner does not count on you and it is difficult for him to tell you things the way he feels, something bad is happening in the relationship. Couples who love each other communicate appropriately.
7. Personal projects are respected and valued, even if the other person does not agree with them.
Where they love you, they do not cut your wings, they push you to fly and discover the best version you have inside. Perhaps your partner does not understand your dreams or your personal projects, but still supports you and accompanies you on the path of discovering them.
If that person doesn't want to bet on your dreams, run away.
8. Trust is present
After communication, trust is necessary to continue by the side of someone we are choosing. When you want, you trust, there are not enough doubts or insecurities to not want to keep trying.
There are relationships that are still together, but they do not know how to cultivate trust and this can be a trigger for love to run out.
9. He gets involved in your life, without your asking
A relationship is surrender and that requires being present when the other party needs us. Couples are agreements where every day you have to negotiate things, decisions, agreements, personal and couple plans. Your partner is not there to fill you up or save you, but how nice it is to know that we have a shoulder of support when we need to go to someone we trust.
10. You are part of their decisions
He includes you in his life, he includes you in his decisions both in the short and long term. You are part of his social and family circle, you are part of his life and it leaves you in evidence. When making decisions he wants to count on you, he does not take you away, you are an important part of the things he wants in his life.
We hope these little tips help you know if your partner loves you and is in love with you and you can look forward to a wonderful future by his side.
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