Life as a couple is not always easy and, from time to time, it leaves the fairy tale that we have been taught in books and in the cinema to find a reality that makes the relationship falter. This is very normal and there is nothing to worry about. What is appropriate, at the same time, is to try to promote special moments between the two, of quality and that, truly, contribute.
You must never forget dates as important as the anniversary (it does not matter if it is the first date or a wedding, that's your thing) or congratulate the other's birthday. Knowing that you are valued by the other person, no matter how small the detail you have, helps. However, it is important not to focus only on such important dates as birthdays or anniversaries, since there are also days throughout the year that are full of magic and are perfect for spending an evening as a couple, such as a New Year's Eve. , which many couples decide to spend in cities full of romance, such as Paris, or Valentine's Day, where originality and the attempt to surprise our partner serves to further unite the bonds of the relationship and not fall into the monotony.
Valentine's Day can be celebrated twice throughout the year, since, in addition to February 14, Sant Jordi's Day is Valentine's Day for Catalans, which is a new opportunity to enjoy a perfect day as a couple, surrounded by roses and books in a charming city like Barcelona. It is a celebration that takes place on April 23 and that carries with it a lot of magic.
It is considered that Sant Jordi is the patron saint of the Catalans and it is not for less since it was he who decided to face a dragon (who had scared everyone) for his beloved, killing him thanks to his sword. When he did, spectacular red roses were sprouted from the dragon's blood and he decided to give one to his princess.
This being the case, it is not uncommon for the tradition to have settled in Catalonia and the fact of giving roses and giving books is one of the most common on that day (we must not forget that, on that date, Book Day also takes place) But the roses of Sant Jordi are the ones that most reflect the legend and a love story that, to this day, endures since the most common is that they are the ones who make this gift to their loved ones.
In addition to all these special days, it is also convenient to keep the flame with other special occasions that each couple comes up with. It is part of the fact of sharing life with the other person that, between the two, there are certain secrets that no one else knows. That being the case, it doesn't hurt either to set a single date for the two of you and dedicate that day (or days) to what you like the most: traveling, resting, enjoying ... in short, connecting with the other.
In the face of everyone else those days will not be of the utmost importance. Only you can make them unique and value them as they deserve How about opting for the first kiss? And the day you went to live together? Encouraging this type of event between the two of you makes those days become a kind of secret ritual, which is only shared by two people. This will also bring about good and intimate memories..
Scientific studies have shown that celebrating important days as a couple makes relationships stronger. In fact, they are a great way to put problems behind you and recall why you decided on each other..
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