In today's article, we are going to give some keys to one of the most basic objectives of any woman (and of any man): To gain attractiveness to the other sex. So, without further ado, I leave you with some tips on how to be a more attractive woman.
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The first thing to say when talking about how to be a more attractive woman is that, although our social conception of man-woman relationships is totally different from what we had thousands of years ago, the truth is that our brains have changed little.
And our brains are, after all, animal brains. Deep within us, the same elements that attract and repel chimpanzees continue to attract and repel us (with few differences).
That is why this article, as a woman, may be a bit offensive to you, because it refers to aspects that could be “macho”. It is not the intention at the time of writing it, far from it.
We have biological drives that condition us, but that does not mean that they determine us. Therefore, my recommendation is to take into account the aspects that I am going to mention and use them in your favor, but always remembering your dignity as a woman, and it is you who puts the limit to the use you make of these strategies.
To know how to be attractive to a man, the first thing to know is what attracts a man. As I said before, we are nothing more than animals, so the characteristics that attract a man are, to some extent, simple:
First of all, physical attractiveness is an important factor. It should be mentioned that physical attractiveness is made up of a biological and a cultural part, so it is convenient to adjust to both.
In terms of biological physical attractiveness, large breasts and wide hips have always been an attraction factor (they imply good fat reserves and a wide canal that guarantees a successful delivery).
Symmetrical facial features are also important, as this indicates health. Healthy hair and nails also indicate optimal health, so they should also be taken care of.
And, of course, a neat physique in general. Here it should be noted that, although currently we always think of splendid bodies of pure fiber, the truth is that some fat (not much) is attractive from a biological point of view.
As for cultural factors, make-up, hairstyles, type of clothing, etc. come in. Basically, the particular fashions and tastes of the man you want to attract (these particular tastes are usually influenced by the culture he lives in).
During tens of thousands of years of evolution, men have protected women from all kinds of threats. This is a reality that, whether we like it or not, is insurmountable. And, evolutionarily, those genes that led to this type of relationship were selected.
This was not a whim: The survival of the hatchlings (our babies) was at stake. To this day, we don't need to be helpless or submissive for our babies to survive, but we still have that programming inside of us..
When it comes to being attractive to another man, a good way to do this is to show some helplessness. This, in fact, is done quite naturally, exaggerating certain fears when you are with that person you like..
Simply, being aware of it, take advantage of it and play with it so that it is favorable when seducing that other person.
A third important point is intelligence. It might seem like it doesn't have a place here, but it does, a lot. For a long time (and it must be said) men have appropriated women's ideas.
They could not expose them freely because they were second-class citizens, and the only way to contribute to society was by pseudonym (when possible) or through their husbands.
In addition, men, evolutionarily, always had to develop their simplest part: Aggression and determination. Women, on the other hand, had to develop social skills and intelligence.
Due to the two previous points, there is an interest of men in women who, in addition to being attractive, are intelligent (contrary to what is usually thought). So, just like you spend half an hour exercising, you have to spend it reading.
As you can see, to be a more attractive woman you only have to focus on two key aspects: Comply with what is biologically expected of a woman, and comply with what is culturally expected. It doesn't sound quite right, but it's the most effective by far.
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