The negative attitudes They are negative dispositions and behaviors that a human being shows temporarily or constantly. That is, if a person has a negative attitude, they will tend to show behaviors that harm both themselves and others.
These characteristics are shown in life in general, as a couple, with children, friends, work ... Human attitudes towards others can therefore be beneficial or harmful.
In life, the most important thing is often the will and avoiding negative attitudes. I believe that the human being with the best attitude, positive qualities, willpower and sacrifice capacity will always move forward and will overtake anyone who is complaining..
Training and intelligence are important, although I believe that attitude and work will always overcome it. Then there is also luck, but in reality it is sought, it never arrives alone.
Perhaps it is a perfect combination of training plus attitude. If you don't have some training -which can be practical- it is likely that you will not be able to work or have a business, and if you do not have an attitude, no matter how much training you have, you will not try anything.
Anyway, I always like to provide data. Look at the facts of some of the most influential, wealthy, and money-givers in the world:
-Richard Branson stopped studying at 16. He is the founder of the Virgin Group and the first company to offer trips to space.
-Francoir Pinault, the third richest man in France dropped out of high school in 1947. He is the owner of Gucci, Samsonite and Puma.
-Bill Gates - who has been the world's first or second richest man for 10 years, did not finish his career at Harvard.
-Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook, did not finish his career at Harvard.
-Steve Jobs, founder of Apple, did not finish the race either.
-Amancio Ortega stopped studying at the age of 14. He is the founder of Inditex, the richest person in Europe and the third in the world.
In fact, of the 5 richest men in the world - Carlos Slim, Bill Gates, Amancio Ortega, Warren Buffett and Larry Elison - only Slim and Buffett have college degrees..
I am aware that there are people who will criticize them, even though they probably use their products. On the other hand, these are some details of your donations:
-Of their $ 76 billion, Bill and Melinda Gates will leave $ 10 million to their children. The rest will be donated to charitable causes.
-Of the 74 billion that Warren Buffett has, 2000 will be left to his children, the rest will be donated to charitable causes.
-Mark Zuckerberg and Larry Elison have also pledged to donate half of their fortune.
-Carlos Slim has donated more than 2000 million dollars.
-In 2014 Amancio Ortega donated 20 million euros to the NGO Cáritas.
These people have worked hard to get their wealth. The problem is in the organizations, institutions and public figures (that each one thinks about who comes to mind) that want to cover themselves with public money, revolving doors (from the government to the company) and fraudulent contacts.
I have already made my opinion on attitude clear. Which is yours? Comment at the end of the article. I'm interested!
-Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.-Winston Churchill.
Negative attitudes often show up at work, at school, and in everyday life. Below I show you some of the most frequent.
You may also be interested in this article about toxic people.
If they insult you on the street, does it bother you? Would you worry if you get up and find in the mailbox of your house / apartment a page saying that you have one day to live?
Such is the power of language. So use it to your advantage, talk to yourself in a kind and lively way.
-The only disability in life is a bad attitude.-Scott Hamilton.
There are people who rain and say that the weather is bad. Then there is sun and it says what a nasty heat.
In reality, the situation doesn't matter as much as your interpretation of it. A rainy day can be great to rest or enjoy the rain and a hot day can also be great to rest and enjoy the sun. It all depends on your interpretation.
-Being interested in the changes of seasons is a happier state than always being in love with spring.-George Santayana.
Comparison with others usually results in discomfort; can lead to stress, depression, or anxiety.
However, in my opinion it does not make much sense, because it does not lead to any results, only psychological discomfort.
It would only make sense to compare yourself if you want to improve and with a good attitude, without negative feelings. It would be the case, for example, if you compare yourself to Michael Jordan, if you study him a lot, because you want to go as far as him. So Michael Jordan would be a role model and you would look up to him (positive feeling), you wouldn't be envious of him.
I believe that it is much more appropriate to reflect in order to learn, act and establish what has been learned in behavior than to continually regret thinking about the past.
I much prefer someone who steals 1000 euros from me and returns it to me asking for forgiveness than someone who steals 1 euro from me, asks for my whole life and does not return it to me. Does it sound like a public figure?
As Nelson Mandela said: “It seems impossible until it's done". And even if it's not done, it's also worth a try. The worst thing is not trying because it is difficult.
-Excellence is not a skill, it is an attitude.-Ralph Marston.
Put on the following case of Manuel and Antonio:
Manuel has blamed everyone except himself. Therefore, believing that he could not do anything, he has not mobilized.
Antonio, believing that part of his situation is his responsibility, has mobilized and has had results.
Cases like these there will be millions around the world. Thousands throughout Latin America and in Spain.
-A strong mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug.-Patricia Neal.
I think this is the worst of all, in fact it touched me and in particular it was a woman who did not contribute to anything.
This goes both ways. You should not tell others that you cannot do something, much less if you want to achieve it, but - much more importantly - you should not tell yourself that you cannot achieve something..
-Virtually nothing is impossible in this world if you put your mind to it and keep a positive attitude.-Lou Holtz.
Everyone likes to be treated well and don't forget to be grateful.
After all, no one is obliged to be nice to someone, so the minimum is a "thank you" and a positive attitude. Nor would it be bad not to forget the favors that some people do.
Actually looking down on someone is a sign of low self-esteem. Someone is despised to feel above him and thus elevate the ego, although in reality he would be building a self-esteem with feet of clay.
You have to love yourself, but without despising people.
-I have never met a man so ignorant that he could not learn something from him.-Galileo Galilei.
The highest representative of this is the typical "potato boy" who has everything but always complains. The problem is that this extends in some cases to almost 30 years or more.
I believe that in many cases it is the responsibility of the parents, although from a certain age adults are 100% responsible for themselves.
Isn't it smarter to admire someone than to criticize them? If you want to be a designer, isn't it smarter to admire the greats of fashion? That way you would learn from them.
Do not fall into this trap and do not get carried away by what other people usually do. Admire people who have achieved what you would like and you will learn from them.
The reality is that nobody owes you anything (unless you have borrowed something). You don't have to wait for someone to smile at you or ask how you're doing. Maybe you don't feel like it, this sad or so, although in any case you don't have to.
Therefore, I think it is better to forget to think badly in these cases. Then you yourself will decide if you "give something" with a good attitude or not, but you are not obliged either.
Moods are scientifically known to spread. It is true that this is not completely in one's control, although to some extent it is possible to avoid "infecting others".
If you have to eat, and you have had a bad day, it may not "come out" to talk too much, although it is not necessary to vent to your meal partner.
Attitudes are contagious. Is yours worth getting? -Dennis and Wendy Mannering.
Isn't it unpleasant for someone to tell you something negative about your personality or behavior and never say something positive??
Surely it has happened to you, it is something that happens very often because we are used to complaining, but not to communicating the positive of others. As if the positive is taken for granted.
This I think is also in very bad taste. It is very unpleasant to hear someone speaking in a bad tone, with an excessively loud or insulted voice.
However, it is something that can be easily viewed on TV on many channels. But that doesn't mean that you fall too.
You do not have to be like others, much less please others, but others do not have to be like you.
Each person has the right to be as they want, as long as they do not harm anyone, of course.
This is a negative attitude, albeit towards others, which can be even worse..
Seeking approval is also a bad attitude that is difficult to realize.
It is negative because it will make you feel bad, because you will live for others instead of for yourself. It is very well described in Wayne Dyer's book..
Like the previous one, it is also difficult to discover because we do not usually realize it.
And what is worse than not doing something you want out of laziness or simply not knowing what will happen when it carries minimal risk?
I am not perfect, in fact I often fall into this type of attitude, although I always tried to correct and improve little by little.
What do you think? What negative attitudes bother you the most?
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